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You and the Psychologist

At Australian Professional Counselling Services as a relationship counsellor coach, I do not hide in my office like most counsellors and psychologists. I go out into the real world and meet you in your home, the parks, on the streets and sometimes, in our office. I do not live off the system, as with most psychologists, counsellors who get paid no matter what, and you feel like all they want is your money for little service.

As a relationship counsellor coach, I give you great service 24/7 you pay for what you get with me. On your first visit with me i spend a minimum of two hours with you so we have time to get to know each other and work out the problems and resolve any situation in your marriages, relationships and your life ASAP.

No one hour sessions, on Your first visit with me, as with most counsellors and psychologists. This is a waste of time and energy, reason being you just get going and then have to finish the session till next week, so they can string out the consultations as long as possible to make maximum return out of the system and you.

Co-Dependency Relationship Counselling Australia

Relationship Counselling in Australia have identified Co-Dependency as a serious problem. Co-dependency is a way of conducting yourself in relationships where you focus on someone else over yourself.

Co-dependency, or co-dependence, co-narcissism, or inverted narcissism, is an unhealthy relationship dynamic. I’ve noticed this over the last 27 years doing relationship counselling, in Australia.

Couple Counselling Sunshine Coast

Couple Counselling Sunshine Coast with Australian Professional Counselling Services can help your relationship immediately. Contact us for information to assist you.

Our Clients Witnessed Positive Impact

In just 2 hours of your first session of couples counselling with us on the Sunshine Coast, your life will change for the best. This we promise you.

We will bring peace and happiness into your home, life and family.

RENEW YOUR MARRIAGE TODAY: 50 WAYS TO TALK AND TOUCH

A Marriage Counsellor on the Sunshine Coast helps couples and individuals strengthen communication. The experience of the Coach will help to rebuild trust and create lasting relationships.

Do you seriously and honestly want to save your marriage or relationship with the one you love, is that correct? Good; you know WHAT you want. The only question left is WHAT am I going to do to fix it?

HOW will you restore your marriage or relationship today that’s the big question.? Isn’t it!

Marriage coaching and relationship coaching helps couples improve communication, resolve conflicts and strengthen an emotional relationship.

By Coach Robert Chambers. Robert has over 20 years’ experience in Relationship Coaching Sunshine Coast.

THE LOVE BANK. MARRIAGE BOX.❤️

This is one of the MOST IMPORTANT aspects of any healthy, loving marriage or couple relationship. Therefore, it must be applied on a day-by-day basis throughout your marriage or relationship, this is a must-do from today.

Life Coaches Sunshine Coast Anger Management

Life coaches and anger management counsellors work with people to help them address personal challenges on the Sunshine Coast.

There are two separate challenges with this approach. Life coaches help clients to set and achieve their goals, self-awareness and positive habits. An anger management counsellor will focus on coaching understanding triggers, communication as well as controlling and reducing anger.

Life Coaches and Anger Management Counsellor

It may be beneficial combining life coaches and an anger management counselor to help your situation. Life coaching looks after your individual development and takes in the bigger picture. Read more on Life Coaches Sunshine Coast Anger Management.

HOW MUCH IS YOUR MARRIAGE WORTH?💖

Relationship counsellors play a vital part in saving marriages. They offer direction, communication strategies, and support during difficult times.

By Coach Robert Chambers

How much is your marriage worth? Not much! Going by most Australians $20, $50, $100 or maybe stretching it to $1000 tops, the price of a cheap TV. Most spend thousands of dollars finishing it in front of some lawyer called a divorce. Though with the right coaching it can be saved easily. Guaranteed!

Marriage Counseling or Marriage Coaching

Have you ever considered marriage counseling? Or have you already started? If your marriage or relationship is in trouble, most likely the answer may be a YES.

But will it really help you? Will traditional counselling be a healing experience, and save your marriage or will it make your situation much WORSE?

I have been a “so called” marriage relationship, couples counsellor for over 26 years and I’m telling you now, this form of counselling just does not work anymore. Almost 75% of couples after a few months of traditional counselling do end up separating and spend a lot of time money and energy, that’s the truth.

Alcohol Abuse and its Effect on Relationship Happiness

Relationship counselling and coaching can help understand the effects alcohol abuse has on relationship happiness.

Alcohol abuse can definitely affect overall marital satisfaction and quality of life. This is according to relationship coach Robert P Chambers from Australian Professional Counselling Services. Many people are very confused regarding who fits the role as an alcoholic.

Most think it’s someone who drinks every day that just is not true.

WHEN YOU JUST DON’T SEEM TO HAVE ENOUGH TIME FOR MARRIAGE💔

Couples therapy can help save your marriage. You need to make time for each other, to see what each is going through.

“We just don’t have enough time in the day.” This is one saying I hear repeated often during couples therapy, coaching in front of me and on the phone. Many couples struggle to balance marriages or relationships and responsibilities, especially those trying to bring up a family.

They seem to really understand many of the characteristics of a happy rewarding marriage. They have read all the tips and suggestions in books and online on how to improve their marriage.

More On – WHEN YOU JUST DON’T SEEM TO HAVE ENOUGH TIME FOR MARRIAGE💔

MY PARTNER GIVES ME THE SILENT TREATMENT; WHAT DO I DO?

Couples Counselling Sunshine Coast

Couples Counselling Sunshine Coast is a very important step to learn how to communicate. Communication is the key to understanding each other. The ‘silent treatment’ never works.

MY PARTNER GIVES ME THE SILENT TREATMENT; WHAT DO I DO?

By Coach Robert P Chambers

I have been couple’s counsellor on the Sunshine Coast for 26 years now and I tell you.

This is a very serious situation and can be very destructive to any relationship, partnership or marriage. Giving the cold shoulder, as we say, only builds resentment on both sides.

A Healthy Marriage

Marriage Counselling can help you have a healthy marriage.

Around the world there’s a lot of confusion about what is a marriage, what is a healthy marriage?

My name is Robert I’ve done marriage counselling for over 26 years with great results if people listen to me.

I basically call myself a marriage coach teacher these days or communication teacher.

I believe that every human being is created to have a desire to be married and some have a desire to be single. But most of you want to be married.

So, what does a healthy marriage look like, and why is there so much confusion about this topic of marriage and family?

Learn To Forgive

Relationship Coaching will help you Learn to Forgive❤️

Or suffer.

To forgive someone who has hurt you in some way is sometimes the hardest thing you may ever do.

Relationship Marriage Counsellor

As a marriage counsellor, I have been relationship coaching for over 26 years on the Sunshine Coast. I have seen over the year’s people who take grudges and resentment to the grave, mainly women.

Examples of un-forgiveness are brothers against brothers, sisters against sisters, families at war over the simplest things. Misunderstandings is the greatest problem and bad communication.

Sometimes after years, they don’t even remember what happened in the first place.

Boundaries in Relationships

Relationship Counsellor

Over the last 26 years as a relationship counsellor and coach I have noticed that many people do not have healthy emotional boundaries in their families and relationships. This, I believe is why our society is so messed up.

Personal boundaries are the limits and rules we set for ourselves within relationships. A person with healthy boundaries can say “no” to others when they want to, but they are also comfortable opening themselves up to intimacy and close relationships.

A person who always keeps others at a distance (whether emotionally, physically, or otherwise) is said to have rigid boundaries. Alternatively, someone who tends to get too involved with others has porous boundaries.

In every relationship, we have our own boundaries. They are guidelines, rules, and limits. Your boundary may be that you won’t tolerate being lied to or put down. When your personal boundaries have been crossed you feel as though you have been taken advantage of or used.

Communication in Relationships. What is communication?

Communication is the process of giving and receiving information.

People do this by discussing ideas, sharing options, explaining what you want, expressing your feelings, and resolving conflicts with others. As a relationship counsellor on the Sunshine Coast, I have been teaching couples how to communicate effectively for over 26 years.

Relationship Counsellor

Communicating is something that we learn to do from the time we are born. The way we communicate is learned from our parents hopefully and the people around us. Gradually, over an extended period we tend to do it automatically, most of the time. Sadly, as a “relationship counsellor on the Sunshine Coast” and now a coach I have never met a couple who could really communicate in over 26 years with marriage and relationship issues.

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Date Nights or Date Days

Date nights or date days with your partner are meant to be a special time for just you and your partner to be alone.

It is the time you get to have and share in intimate conversation together “without outside distraction or interference.” This is the time where you can feel safe to share your feelings about how you feel towards your partner and yourself.

Make the Time to Talk to each other.

It’s time to be you, without criticism and attack from your partner. Here is a safe time of love and sharing, a time to talk openly regarding any issues that you may have in your relationship.

More information on Date Nights or Date Days

Substance Abuse Definitely Effects Marriage and Relationships

Substance Abuse Effects Marriage and Relationships

Substance Abuse Definitely Effects Marriage and Relationships, which tends to be one of the main causes of family breakdowns, can vary from the overuse of prescription medication, illegal drugs, or alcohol abuse. I see more and more of my clients turning to substances and alcohol to cope with stress.

Over many years as a relationship counselor and coaching couples, on the Sunshine Coast I have witnessed the devastating effects that substance abuse has had on family life.

A person is considered an addict

In our society, it is government supported, and they claim huge amounts of tax. The degree to which the user is using will vary. A person is considered an addict when they experience financial loss; breakdown in relationships; child negligence; and find themselves breaking the law to support their habits.

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Alcoholic Partner Sunshine Coast

How do you know your living with an Alcoholic Partner?

“That’s the big question that not many know the answer to”.

Living with an alcoholic can be extremely taxing on your own well-being. This is especially true in the case of an alcoholic husband or wife and especially children. I know this personally in my parents’ home when I was growing up.

Also, I lived with one for five years. Many years ago, which drove me almost to insanity as AA – Alcoholics Anonymous defines anyone living with an alcoholic. If I did not experience living with alcoholism, I would never have become one of the best coach relationship Counsellors on the Sunshine Coast Queensland and across Australia.

More information on Alcoholic Partner Sunshine Coast.

Relationship Counselling Sunshine Coast

In the past 20 years in Relationship Counselling Sunshine Coast, I have seen many control freaks. Recognising control freaks in a relationship. IS YOUR PARTNER LIKE THIS……READ ON…… They are basically all around us. Very often you will come across someone intent on dominating everyone around them including you. They are a person who lack the ability to consider the feelings, needs and interests of other people. Also, while reading this, have a good look in the mirror at yourself.

More information on Relationship Counselling Sunshine Coast

Couples Counsellor Sunshine Coast

May 25, 2023

♥️𝐔𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐀𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧:

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐦𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐝𝐨 you 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 as a couple 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞. Says Robert P chambers a successful couples counsellor on the Sunshine Coast.

Before you read this, I let you know I’m not in a fantasy world I’m in the real world ok. My first question to couples seeking help now is. Is your marriage in good health? Do you have time to be married? Or in a relationship as a happy couple?

HOW MUCH IS YOUR MARRIAGE WORTH?💖

By Coach Robert Chambers

Not much! Going by most Australians $20, $50, $100 or maybe stretching it to $1000 tops, the price of a cheap TV. Most spend thousands of dollars finishing it in front of some lawyer called a divorce. Though with the right coaching it can be saved easily. Guaranteed!

Ask your partner when you get some time together. How much do they value you in money value and see what they say?

WHEN YOU JUST DON’T SEEM TO HAVE ENOUGH TIME FOR MARRIAGE💔

“We just don’t have enough time in the day.” This is one saying I hear repeated more and more often from couples everyday in front of me and on the phone struggling in marriages or relationships, especially those who are trying to bring up a family. They seem to really understand many of the characteristics of a happy rewarding marriage. They have read all the tips and suggestions in books and online on how to improve their marriage. However, when it comes down to actually doing the work necessary to make their marriage work, they feel incapable because of all the demands on their present busy schedule.

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  Boundaries in Relationships
  Anger Management and Its Triggers
  Learn to Forgive
  My Partner gives me the Silent Treatment. What do i do?
  Date Night or Date Days
  Resentment Destroys Marriages, You Can Fix It

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